How to Convince Your Parents to Let You Marry Girl of Your Choice You have this girl you love, but your parents don't approve?

Steps

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Do talk to the girl one more time, before talking to your parents about marrying her.
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    Fix up a time; then take the girl home, and start talking with your parents.
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    If the person you are going to introduce to your parents - is a total stranger - then you got to do the basic introduction about her, her background, and so on.
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    If the person you are going to introduce to your parents is a long time friend that they know - things will be relatively much better.
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    Explain your point of view - about why YOU like her; why you LOVE her, and what, in your view - makes her the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Do let the girl talk in the middle of your discussion, which will help your parents understand a little bit about the girl, and the way she thinks, and the way she perceives and explains things to your parents.
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    Let the girl have some alone time with your parents (individually, or, with both simultaneously), for them to get to know her better.
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    Ask your parents how they feel. Be silent until they finish explaining; let them explain what they think about the situation.
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    Once they finish explaining, they will definitely ask some questions to you, , and the girl - in terms of how to approach this whole thing, and in general - which you are required to answer.
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    Then, ask your parents what they like, and what they don't like - in the current situation; and what they expect you to do. If their explanation presents another situation - that gives a feasible solution for everyone, then take it up. Otherwise, think about it, and talk some more - until there is harmony, among everybody in that place.
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    The next step, of course, is for you to go and meet the girl's parents (with the girl's consent, of course) - and talk politely, and explain the situation.
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    If possible, in the girl's place - try being a little less-talkative than you are at your place. You should always ensure that the parents (both sides) don't feel less-respected, misrepresented, or anything bad about the situation.
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    Next step would be to ask both parents, and fixing a day - and meet up with everyone in either families - and have a good first discussion.

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